Lately, I've became increasingly annoyed at certain things - how people will complain repeatedly or be unhappy when you don't ask them out when you're free, when you're on holidays or when you come back from wherever you are (for example, if you're studying abroad). So what if you're the one on holidays, or on a break ? Does that mean it's only your obligation to ask them out, to take the initiative ? Is this how it's supposed to work ? If they've so much time to complain and talk about it to others, why can't they use this time to just open their mouths to ask you instead or just drop you a text ? I mean it beats complaining and being unhappy about it and it probably helps you to arrange a meetup much faster.

But I do get it that sometimes I forget about appointment I've talked about weeks in advance but you can always ask me again. There are other commitments and other friends that I've yet to catch up with too and I'm really trying to make an effort to squeeze in a bit of time here and there and sometimes I just need more understanding on your part. It's not that you're less important, it's just that when you've so many things to attend or do, you tend to slip up every now and then.

And one more thing that really gets on my nerves is that I really don't like people bugging me to do something or answering questions. I don't really mind if you repeat yourself twice because I might have missed it out on the first time or I've forgotten about it. But other than that, I'd prefer that you allow me to answer/do it on my own time and if I really did want to tell you/do it, I'd have already said/done it it a long time ago, so please give it a rest.

I'm not angry, I'm just getting it off my chest because it bugs me whenever I think about all these.